Sunday, August 15, 2010

FANTASIA'S STATE OF AFFAIRS

ONCE UPON A TIME THERE WAS A HAPPILY MARRIED COUPLE-THE COOKS-WHO LIVED IN A HAPPY HOME AS A HAPPY FAMILY. THEY ALL HAPPILY HAD A HAPPY LIFE UNTIL A BIG BAD MAN STEALER CAME INTO THEIR LIVES AND WRECKED THEIR HAPPY HOME.

Yeah, right! If you believe in fairly tales, then you may be one to side with Antwaun Cook's wife Paula Cook, in thinking that it was Fantasia Barrino that caused her marriage to fail. But if you are in the real world, you would know that a marriage cannot be broken unless...it already has cracks in it.

It  was 'discovered' that Antwaun was actually living with Fantasia in her $1.3 suburban Charlotte mansion since last fall.  We're approaching a new fall season now, so why all of a sudden are they talking about Fantasia possibly being sued by Paula on the basis of the Alienation of Affection law? First of all, in the state of NC (one of the few states that still carry that bullsh*t law),  revisions of the law state were made.  As of 10/01/2009 if the extramarital affair started after a married couple is separated, the alienation of affection law cannot be used. Obviously if a man is living with another woman, it seems that separation is there.

I personally feel like if my man decided to slip into the sheets with someone else, I have to know that what I was doing wasn't enough for him.  And the same for if a man decides to spend his time/efforts on me. Seriously...how crazy is that to sue the other woman?!

But, Fantasia may have something to really be concerned about. In NC it is  illegal to have sex with someone who is married to someone else under any circumstances (other than the revised law mentioning seperation) . If Paula can prove that Fanny’s been sleeping with her husband, she could win BIG MONEY in a civil suit.  It's possible.   In 2001, a jury awarded one scorned lover $1.4 million under the law, known as “criminal conversation.”

It's a harsh world when you have to be your brothers keeper and your sisters keeper when it comes to matters of the heart (and purse).  I guess NC ain't down with that "Chick on the Side" status. I mean, what the hell happened to being able to send his ass home when you're finished kicking it?  I'm in NO WAY applauding or even endorsing extra marital affairs or adultery, but DAMN----WHY PUNISH THE OTHER WOMAN...IT'S THE HUSBAND WHO MADE THE VOWS TO HIS WIFE, HE SHOULD BE RESPONSIBLE FOR KEEPING THEM.  Personally, I think the law is a cop-out and a way to keep the old saying "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned".  If Paula does go through with the lawsuit, she's (in my opinion) lame as hell.

On a side note (I hope the d**k was good enough to pay money for, because that just may be the case).


Mistresses & Chicks on the side, Please note that in Hawaii, Illinois, Mississippi, New Mexico, North Carolina, South Dakota, and Utah the Alienation of Affection Law is enforced.  It is VERY illegal to give the pu**y to a married man in those mentioned states (but ain't nothing wrong with a little bump an grind in the rest of the states). #ImJustSayin

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